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Sunday, September 18, 2016

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly - Week of September 11

Something I promised my friends before I left for NYC was that I would write about everything, not just the fun and glamorous parts of my NYC life.  I've decided to start a weekly roundup called "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly" in order to keep this promise.  


Online Ordering

THE GOOD: 



I'm so glad that Google Express got here before I did.  I can have delivered to my apartment just about anything that Costco, Target, Walgreen's, and other stores sell that's non perishable.   If I realize I need something on Monday night, it can be at my door the next day, sometimes as early as noon.

THE BAD: 

Furniture delivery.  Ugh!  These can be tricky.  Some items must be scheduled in order to be delivered, especially if they are bringing it into my apartment.  If we bring it in ourselves, we have to pay a $500 deposit and let the building know 24 hours in advance.  If we don't break anything on the way up, we get our money back.  

I've been waiting on three large pieces from West Elm.  I called to find out where they were.  I discovered that 2 of the 3 items have been sitting in their warehouse for a week waiting for the third piece.  While they are willing to deliver them to me one at a time, they weren't going to let me know that.  

THE UGLY:

About 50% of the furniture we have already received has been damaged or broken.  Returns are tricky in NYC, because you are responsible for transporting it back.  When a certain Englishman bought a couch at IKEA, he paid $50 for a driver to bring it back to our apartment.  He took the huge boxes upstairs only to discover that one piece was damaged.  So he had to pay $55 for an SUV Uber to go back to Brooklyn to switch it out and then another $45 to get the right piece back to our place.  This was over 10% of the cost of the couch.  

DOORMEN

THE GOOD:

I LOVE our doormen.  They are really amazing.  After our first meeting they know our name.  With 548 units, I don't know how they do this.  These are the most friendly, funny, New Yorkers I interact with on a daily basis.  It's like having a loving family member looking out for you.  I want to give them all a hug.

THE BAD:

While the doormen themselves are wonderful, it can be tricky having them.  They aren't allowed to let anyone up to your apartment unless we tell them in advance that they are coming.  So visiting and deliveries aren't anything like they are out in the suburbs.

THE UGLY:

Fortunately the doormen are there to receive all packages, 24 hours a day.  Unfortunately, they receive TONS of packages every day.  Each one must be processed, scanned, put into a computer, and then the apartment is notified of the package.  They do this by putting your apartment number on a big screen, emailing you, and even calling you if it is Google Express.  As you can imagine this takes quite a bit of time for them to do this.  So a package that you desperately need may be downstairs but you can't pick it up because it hasn't been processed.

SUBWAYS 

THE GOOD:

I really like taking the subways.  They bypass all the street traffic and can get you around town much more quickly than a bus or car.  There are lots of apps that help make using the subways much easier.  My favorite is Citymapper.


I don't know how I'd get around without Citymapper.  It tells me how much an Uber would cost, how long it would take to walk it, which buses and subways I can take to get there.  It even alerts me to delays.  It was through Citymapper I found out about the explosion in Chelsea.  

THE BAD:

Weekends are tough on subways.  This is when most of the construction happens and you never know what will be open and what won't.  A certain Englishman was an hour late getting to the airport to meet us because of a line closure he didn't know about.  We have had to travel by foot long distances because of unexpected train delays or closures.  

THE UGLY:

As convenient and inexpensive as subways are, they are also a popular place for the indigent.  While illegal, many times someone will beg for money with a prepared speech.  Last night as word of the explosion made its way to New Yorkers, many of us discovered that we are on a subway line that was shut down preventing us from getting home.  Many people had out their phones and were trying to book Ubers or find alternate routes.  While all of this was happening, a man who was trying to start his speech asking for money, started to yell at everyone to be quiet and to listen to him.  He didn't realize what was happening.  All he knew was that no one was paying him any attention.   We finally stepped off the train so that we could hear each other, as did most people.  

We had just bought our weekly groceries at Trader Joe's and had two heavy bags.  We ended up walking about a total of 12 to 15 blocks at various points throughout the city so that we could find a line that was running.  

Which leads me to.... 


Compeed


THE GOOD: 

This pretty much is the best thing ever when it comes to blisters on feet.  It comes in a carrying case that I keep in my purse. 

THE BAD:

Shoes that have been really comfortable in Utah, are not so much in NYC.  Fast walking to catch a train or get to a meeting, puts lots of stress on my feet and shoes.  Ouch!

THE UGLY: 

What my feet look like when I don't put on Compeed fast enough.  

NYC Walls and Ceilings

This week our wall mount for a 55" TV came in.  A certain Englishman set aside Wednesday night to install it.  He finally got it finished Saturday afternoon.   Here's why: 

THE GOOD: 

According to NYC code, all walls shared with another apartment must be double sheet rocked.  This equates to about  1 1/4 inches of sheet rock.  This means we can't hear anything coming from the apartment next to ours, even their yappy little dog.  The ceilings are made of concrete and keep us from hearing anyone above us.  We also don't have to worry about making noise and disturbing anyone below us.  

THE BAD: 

The screws and anchors that came with the wall mount, wouldn't work.  NYC doesn't use wood studs in high rise buildings, they use metal ones.  This means you have to use an anchor system with togglers.  



These actually work pretty well but can be tricky to use.  And when one breaks and slips behind the sheetrock, you have go back to the hardware store to buy another one, which is a 15-minute one way journey by foot.  Thank goodness for teenage sons!

THE UGLY:

As frustrating as learning how to navigate thick sheet rock can be, figuring out how to hang from a concrete ceiling is worse.  This requires a special carbide drill bit and special anchors.  And as we learned the hard way, a different drill.  A normal drill can't cut it (literally).  You need what is called a hammer drill.  Fortunately, our neighbor already has one we can borrow.  But it was a long afternoon figuring all of this out on our own.

Grocery Shopping 


THE GOOD:

Grocery stores and fruit stands are everywhere.  It's hard to walk very far without someplace that sells food.  Trader Joe's has national pricing, which means while it can be expensive in some cities, it is incredibly low-priced in NYC.

THE BAD:

Grocery shopping is tricky because you have to be able to carry what you purchase.  Lots of grocery delivery places exist, but some can cost $300 a year just in membership fees, and I'm just not ready yet to have someone else decide which bananas we want.  A certain Englishman is very particular about the level of ripeness in his banana.  So I like to make my own purchases.  Which means weighing the trade off of getting the larger size with more savings versus having to carry it home.

THE UGLY:

Living with a teenager, we go through lots of milk.  I found a market in TriBeCa where the milk is only $4.29 a gallon.  (I can't believe I just used the words "only" "milk" and "$4.29" in the same sentence.)  But the store isn't too close, and if we suddenly run out of milk, it would take a while just for one gallon.  I decided to see what the market across the street from our apartment charges.  I figured it would be more expensive, but maybe worth the savings in time.

Are you sitting down?

First of all the store only sells half gallon sizes.  I guess there aren't too many teenagers in Battery Park City.

Secondly, half a gallon of milk cost $5.00.  

That $10 for a gallon of milk!

Think about that next time you load up on milk at Costco.

And there you have it, the good, the bad, and the ugly of our first week in New York City.


Monday, September 5, 2016

"God Be With You": Saying Goodbye to Temple Square

"God be with you till we meet again."
~Jeremiah E. Rankin

When I first moved to Utah over 16 years ago, I promised myself I would take advantage of living so close to Temple Square.  

And I have.  

I can't count how many events I've attended at the Conference Center, Tabernacle, Assembly Hall, and the Delta Energy Solutions Vivint Smart Home Your Ad Space Here Center.


I've gone to the musical production of Savior of World multiple times.  


I saw Light of the World, a special production for the 2002 Olympics.  




I've seen the Utah Jazz play from the hospitality suite.

Honestly, we didn't catch much of the game.

I have listened to the Christus recording in Romanian, Japanese, Chinese, and Spanish so my guests would understand it.  


I've attended several weddings and sealings at the Salt Lake City Temple, which is where I was married.  


I presented information to LDS Church employees at the Church Office Building. And got lost in the parking garage afterward! 



I have a frequent diner card for the Lion House and have even eaten lunch in the room where Brigham Young organized the Young Women program.  



I have celebrated my anniversary at the Roof even when we had very little money. 


I have spent hours researching my ancestors in the Family History Library.



I visited my ancestor's ironing board on display at the Church History Museum.
It's no longer there!  I didn't take it, I promise. 

I have peeked inside the cabin where my ancestor, Christopher Riding lived which is sandwiched between the two buildings.  



The last time I went shopping with my mom before she died was at City Creek.


I know the best parking spots and the shortcuts to avoid tourists. 

I definitely have a soft spot in my heart for Temple Square.  It's like a second home. 


Yesterday, the kids and I went to the Conference Center to attend the live broadcast of Music and the Spoken Word.  



Of all the events at Temple Square, Music and the Spoken Word is my absolute favorite.  There is a special feeling connected with that show.
Did you know Music and Spoken Word is 88 years old?  Most people who are alive have only known a world with Music and the Spoken Word in it.  



Just before the show ended, I started to get melancholy.  I realized that I wouldn't be able to come to Temple Square whenever I want.  Instead of a 35-minute drive, it will now be a 5-hour plane ride.


One of the reasons why I like to attend the broadcast live is because they always do something that you don't get to see on TV or hear on the radio.  After the cameras turn off, they sing a song to the audience.

They always sing the same song, "God Be With You Till We Meet Again."  I knew the song was coming, but it wasn't until they actually started to sing the words that I started to cry.  

I know that no one who was singing that song knew that I had been there several times and that this was going to be my last for a long time.  But in a weird way, they did know.  I felt like they knew my sadness and were trying to comfort me.  It's as if they were saying, 

"God will be with you in NYC.  Don't worry, we'll meet again."

Never has that sweet hymn had so much meaning for me.  


  1. God be with you till we meet again;
    By his counsels guide, uphold you;
    With his sheep securely fold you.
    God be with you till we meet again.
  2. (Chorus)
    Till we meet, till we meet,
    Till we meet at Jesus' feet,
    Till we meet, till we meet,
    God be with you till we meet again.
  3. 2. God be with you till we meet again;
    When life's perils thick confound you,
    Put his arms unfailing round you.
    God be with you till we meet again.
  4. 3. God be with you till we meet again;
    Keep love's banner floating o'er you;
    Smite death's threat'ning wave before you.
    God be with you till we meet again.
If you ever have a chance to go to Salt Lake City, visit Temple Square.  If you have a long layover, they even have a free shuttle for you.



And if you do, will you tell it "Hi" for me?